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CAKERs: Here's your big break -
Marie Claire Magazine UK wants to know what CAKE members think about…anal sex. Let's give them the motherload! (See the end of this email for explicit details)

Anal sex?: ooohhh!, OR ouch!!

What's the big deal about anal sex? Many women (and men) love anal stimulation, others are not so sure, and for some it's completely out of the question. Since nobody REALLY talks about it - rampant myths, misconceptions and confusion have made anal sex taboo. Until now…..

For those of you already playing along at home as well as for those potential first timers, CAKE lends a helping hand and a few words of advice:

one word: LUBE!
Two words: Clit Action
Three words: Get On Top

If you've ever tried anal without a bucketful of lube, then you have probably never gone "back" since. If you didn't exactly have the best of luck the first time round, CAKE suggests going back for more with a bottle of lube on hand for the squeezing. If you have generally shied away from experimenting, we would also recommend checking out the look of a woman's face beside herself with anal pleasure. CAKE knows that it's always good to get some extra visual and educational information so we have hand picked just for you the "CAKE approved"-"Anal Sex 101: Kit" Remember - watching CAKE approved porn and exploring accurate literature is great inspiration for the newly initiated.

The CAKE approved "Anal Sex 101 Kit":

Anal Pleasure & Health : A Guide for Men and Women, by Jack Morin
The definitive book on anal sex and sexuality. The first and only research-based guide for the millions of men and women, of all sexual orientations, who want to include the anal area in their erotic exploration. Includes such essential metaphorical euphemisms as - once it's been in the back door, don't put it in the front (if you know what we are saying…)

Tristan Taormino's: Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women Video

CAKE raves on and on about Tristan's ultra sexy, and ultra instructional female directed, produced and focused film. With cool couples, real orgasms and an educational twist, "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" achieves the CAKE seal of approval.

A Bottle of I-D Lube

The one and only from on our fabulous CLUB.CAKE sponsors-and it's water-based! An absolute requirement for latex condoms, and silicone butt plugs.

Question of the Week:

What are your thoughts on, experiences with, tips for and overall feelings about-Anal sex for women?

Your submissions may be selected for a feature on anal sex in the "first ever Sex Issue" for Marie Claire Magazine UK, February 2001. All submissions will be strictly confidential and anonymous unless you say otherwise.

As one female CAKER put it:
"I am a woman who gets off on hardcore anal scenes. It's something I could never tell my uptight girlfriends because they would think I'm weird. There's nothing like watching a big, hard cock slide into a woman's tight ass while she's screaming!"

CAKE member feedback is critical since they want to hear reports from real women who take charge of their sexuality. Give us your tips, your tails (!), you trials and tribulations. Get your thoughts out there and help bring us all closer to creating a new, real discourse on female sexuality. This is a no holds barred attempt -don't hold out because you think we can't handle it! Get graphic, get gorey, get gooey, get on it--www.cakenyc.com/members/report.asp

Love, CAKE.