CAKE Byte 48.0: CAKE.Educate

CAKE adores men. In fact, we love men, cannot live without them...especially when they are talking it off for our benefit at CLUB.CAKE.

When it comes to female sexual empowerment, men are 50 percent of the equation. Male involvement is integral to the CAKE cause. The number one reason CAKE.Girls bring male friends and partners down to CLUB.CAKE is to get an education. Men are always asking, "What do women want?" Think Maxim Magazine. This question always ridiculously simplistic and trite. Think about it, would you ever think to ask "What do men want?"...However, when asked what they want sexually, women are not shy to say - "Sucks, not licks", "A man who worships the ground that I walk on!" and "good clitoral stimulation".

It is abundantly clear that CAKE.Girls want (and demand) that their male partners know how to please and pleasure them. Above all, we expect that our men have a dedicated interest in finding out what makes us hum, purr, scream and explode. Female sexuality is not static. Our tastes and desires evolve every day. CAKEÕs version of Adult Sex Ed 101 is all about education in the pursuit of pleasure! In this way, our sexuality will continue evolving and change for the better. When men take the time to figure that out, we all reap hours and hours of rewards.

All month long on CAKE we will be focusing on men. This week's mission for all of you CAKE.Boys is to find out where the female G-SPOT is.

Here are some pointers from CAKE:

• The G-spot is on the top wall of the vagina, about 2 inches in from the vaginal opening
• Every woman has a G-spot
• Many women feel intense pleasure when it's stimulated
• Some women can ejaculate from G-spot stimulation
• You can reach the G-spot by holding your hand in a "come hither" motion
• Once inside, rest your fingertips on the slightly ridged area just behind the pubic bone and press upwards lightly
• Move your fingers subtly until you start to feel a small bean-shaped swelling
• Vary the pressure, speed, and pattern of movement. Try moving your fingers side to side or in small circles
• Point your fingers more sharply upwards and rock them forward and back
• Use your thumb to rub the clitoris, and the first two fingers to simultaneously stimulate the G-spot.
• Try a toy like the Rabbit (see CAKE Byte 45.0: Bunny Ears for more details) with your girl for additional stimulation.

Above all, enjoy your quest!

Question of the Week:

CAKE.Girls, what do you wish guys learned in Sex Ed? Submit your answer at the CAKE.REPORT

Love,
CAKE