CAKE Byte — The Great Equalizer

Self love all the rage these days? We have something better. CAKE wants you to know that masturbation is no longer something you only do alone. Indeed, when with a partner, try mutual masturbation to get you to a whole new level of pleasure. The intent of mutual masturbation is for both the guy and the girl to achieve orgasm through the physical act of masturbation and the arousal generated by what is being said, done and played out. Okay, but what does this have to do with female pleasure persay, you ask? It turns out that mutual masturbation is the great equalizer — everyone is guaranteed to get off!

A Bit of History:

Mutual masturbation has always been common among humans. In some ancient western cultures, it was connected with religious worship. For example, in Egyptian Mythology the god Orisis creates all living creatures by an infinite act of masturbation. This was also seen as the source of the Nile River, and the cause of its annual flooding, which was the backbone of life in Egypt. The ritual developed from pharaohs masturbating before the god's image at the time of their enthronement. This led to lots and lots of public mutual masturbation during religious worship to expel evil and honor the gods of generation. Who knew?

The Scoop:

Mutual masturbation can be an incredibly exciting sexual encounter. Sharing your self pleasuring techniques with your partner can be a great way for your partner to learn how you like to be touched and stimulated. Your boy can watch you and learn your moves, your strokes, your techniques so he can please you better in the future. By watching your boy, you can learn how he likes it stroked. Think about it - It’s visually exciting, to watch your partner receiving the ultimate pleasure. It brings out the voyeur and performer in all of us. Everyone likes to put on a show at one time or another, and mutual masturbation is the best way to do it. There’s no better way to feel sexy than pleasing yourself in front of your partner. Make a whole show of it too, get all dressed up and strip for your lover, then get down and dirty with yourself. Be honest with your excitement, if what you’re doing feels really good, let him know.

Benefits:

• It's safer sex- the safest sex possible
  
• One of the easiest ways to experience coming at the same time, yes? — yes!
  
• Seeing your man touching himself the way it feels best (and of course vice versa) to get aroused
  
• A great way to educate your boy - use his own hand on you and show him the way home
  
• It’s romantic ..., no?
  
• Zero performance anxiety
  
• A good choice for a one night stand — get to really know someone
  
• Everyone gets off!

Techniques:

• Pleasure yourself, while your partner stimulates other parts of your body (you know like your breasts, lips, ears, toes...)
  
• While your partner is stimulating you, you can put your hand over his and go through the motions with him so he learns something new
  
• As you are masturbating your partner, masturbate yourself — double the pleasure!

One CAKE.Girl’s Experience:

"He has learned by watching me. I like my outer lips rubbed in a circular motion, as opposed to just up and down and indirect clitoral stimulation in the beginning and once I’m well aroused, direct clitoral stimulation is a must. My favorite technique is to stoke him while I stroke myself (or use a vibrator on myself.) This way I get turned on by the visual and feel of stroking him while bringing myself to orgasm. When done right, I can make us both come at once!"

We could not have said it better ourselves. Justice has been served!

Question of the Week

You are going on a pleasure mission — in the next week try out a mutual masturbation technique — on the phone, online, in person and then report back to CAKE. You have 7 days and 7 nights to complete your mission. Submit your answer and check out the juicy details from last week's question in the Report section.

Love,
CAKE