These
days the issue of domination and submission has taken a turn for the worse, but
the issue of POWER remains an integral part of getting turned on, and getting
off. For some, power play is a very specific practice, requiring styled attire,
props, tools, and an open and consensual partner. For others, power can be a more
subtle part of sex, or may play out more prominently in fantasies than reality.
Most importantly, pleasurable power play is about an interaction - one where each
party must communicate to get what they want. My
fantasy is about being dominated. I am in a place where the music is so loud that
it's pointless to talk because you wouldn't be heard. A strange woman blind folds
me from behind and slowly ties my wrists to the chair I am sitting at. She then
proceeds to touch me slowly … I
like power play. I love it when a guy dominates me in bed. That is the only place
I allow them to dominate me. So there is something hot about giving in to something
that you normally do not give in to. I love it when a man is on top. Heavy, kinda
pressing me into the bed, not giving me much room to move. Breathing on me, tugging
my hair, pinning my hands, slighting chocking my neck. That kind of power is a
real turn on. There
is just not a submissive bone in my body. I have always been really tall, very
confident and really go after what I want. I've also been sexually aggressive
from the time we were all playing spin the bottle! I always enjoy lovers who are
not as aggressive, not as experienced, younger or even physically smaller than
me (Me?control issues? No!!!!)
More than the idea of S+M, the exploration and interplay of power imbalances seem
to turn women on. However, there are no rights on wrongs, rather ask any woman
and she may tell you that all she wants is for someone else to take control and
on the flipside maybe the idea of dominating someone with more power than her
makes her day. The idea of domination on an equal playing field between women
and men can result in women having the power to give her partner exactly what
they want and at the same time fulfill her fantasy of doing exactly what she wants.
But,
where does a nice girl go to get kinky? Out of the dungeon and into your real
life. CAKE NYC presents POWER — a educational, fantasical experience. Learn
some new skills, demonstrate them on others and have a grand ole spankin’
time! This
event is open to CAKE.CARD Members and their guests only. All men must be accompanied
by a female member.
POWER
A
CLUB.CAKE production for Members Only
Wednesday, March 26th -10pm OPEN
BAR (VODKA) FROM 10-11:00 courtesy of our friends @ ALPS VODKA Wearing
black or kinky inspired outfits encouraged, but not required.
CLICK
HERE TO RSVP Love,
CAKE
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